A larger-than-life presence has passed from the Grapevine wine scene and the Texas wine scene in general. Don Bigbie—entrepreneur, world traveler, wine maker, and civic leader—has left this life, leaving behind a rich legacy of wine making and community spirit.
The details are still forthcoming as I write this post, but my heart is saddened by the news, having just gotten to know Mr. Bigbie in advance of last fall’s Grapefest. I was writing a couple of posts featuring wineries along the Grapevine wine trail, and I asked Michael Woody of the Grapevine Convention and Visitor’s Bureau who would be a good person to profile for one of the stories.
“Talk to Don Bigbie,” Woody told me. “He’s got lots of stories.”
I had to name drop the bureau and ply Mr. Bigbie with a little email sweet talk to convince him to grant me an interview at Cross Timbers Winery, his Grapevine winery located in the historic Dorris/Brock house behind a row of gnarled trees on far north Main Street. An old school cowboy and self-made man-of-means, Don was no huge fan of the press and pandered to no one while advancing the Texas wine industry and promoting the city he called home. Even though (slightly) advanced in years, he was constantly on the move, and I got the sense that he had scant time to spare for a would-be Texas wine journalist.
However, from the minute I arrived, Don rolled out the welcome mat, taking me all around the rustic, charming grounds of Cross Timbers, a place I’d frequented before, but it was all new when seen through the eyes of the man who had literally built it with his bare hands. He also spoke of his long ago days with Braniff Airlines when he was a business jet setter learning to appreciate the nuances of a fine Bordeaux or a fruity Sangiovese.
Don had been experimenting with wine making for almost a half century, and his pride was evident as he watched me taste samples of his Viognier and Cabernet Sauvignon. I ended up spending almost two hours in the thrall of Don’s stories and wine, and for a gentleman who had initially seemed too busy to talk for long, we surely did enjoy a leisurely visit that lovely fall afternoon.
Just before I left, I asked Don if he would let me take a photo of him alongside the house he had so carefully restored back in the mid-nineties, when even a younger person would have viewed the challenge with trepidation. His rugged face broke into a big smile under the even bigger white Stetson, and I don’t know that I’ve ever taken a picture of a Texas wine maker that I will cherish more. I confess I was so touched by his hospitality and old fashioned chivalry that I asked if I might give him a kiss on his stubbled cheek, to which he consented, and now more than ever, I’m glad I was so honored.
Everyone in the Texas wine community will miss Don, and yet we are fortunate that his trail blazing spirit and contributions to the wine industry will live on. And I’m doubly privileged to have the recollection of that sunny, golden afternoon I spent with a true Texas legend.
Messina Hof Winery & Resort’s Paul V. Bonarrigo added this about Don Bigbie. “Don was a great ambassador of Grapevine and hospitality. Everyone he met became a friend.”
Happy trails, Don Bigbie.
Thank you for sharing this. Saddened by this news. He was a great man.
Very well said. Many people had those kind of experiences with Don. He was truly a great man and it was not hard to see. I’m glad that you got to spend this time with him so that you could share with everyone what so many others experienced as well. He was a gentleman that touched many hearts! Thank you so much for writing this!
what a great and appropriate way to end your story about Don, Happy Trails. Best send off I could think of for Don
He was a really nice man. We had our daughter’s wedding at Cross Timbers and Don was there to be sure it was as we wanted. He did graveside great stories and wine.
Don was a truly great person with a heart as big as his personality. I will really miss Don and his stories and friendship. He was a great advocate for Texas wineries and part of the Six Shooter Cellars family. Happy Trails Don!
Wonderful write up-not only a loss for the wine community but the entire Grapevine community. We are so glad for the honor of having known him over the years. He will be greatly missed.
Don will be greatly missed. We are blessed to have crossed paths. His witty jokes will forever stay in our hearts. He was our adopted Six Shooter Grandpa. Sweet Dreams old man. No disrespect, he will get a kick out of that.
Don Bigbie was one more Helluva a Man . Gone ? Yes ! Still amongst us ? Without a doubt ! His legacies , whatever , they are what they are , obvious . I believe God gave me a special blessing when I had the privilege of meeting the man and shaking his hand for the first time . I felt I had just been introduced to a person who would become a very important part of my life . Amen ! He married my Sister , Penelope Anne Wilks — Don was my Brother in Law . Mi Amigo , RIP , Adios , Buenos Noches , Linus